Showing posts with label Success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Success. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Why Do I Succeed?


Why Do I Succeed?

I succeed because I am willing to do the things you are not. 
I will fight against the odds. 
I will sacrifice. 
I am not shackled by fear, insecurity, or doubt. 
I feel those emotions drink them in and then swallow them away to the blackness of hell. 
I am motivated by accomplishment, not pride. 
Pride consumes the weak-kills their heart from within. 
If I fall, I will get up. 
If I am beaten, I will return. 
I will never stop getting better. 
I will never give up, ever.
That is why I succeed. 

~ Anonymous

Saturday, October 12, 2013

10 Keys To Success

A picture of words like success, vision, teamwork, and more.

Key #1: 

“Successful people are simply those with successful habits.” ~ Brian Tracy

Key #2: 

“Successful people are not gifted; they just work hard, then succeed on purpose.” ~ G.K. Nielson

Key #3: 

“Success is a state of mind. If you want success, start thinking of yourself as a success.” ~ Dr. Joyce Brothers

Key #4: 

“The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.” ~ George Bernard Shaw

Key #5: 

“Success is the sum of small efforts - repeated day in and day out.” ~ Robert Collier

Key #6: 

“I never dreamed about success. I worked for it.” ~ Estee Lauder

Key #7: 

“The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary.” ~ Vince Lombardi

Key #8: 

“In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.” ~ Bill Cosby

Key #9: 

“The most successful people are those who are good at Plan B.” ~ James Yorke

Key #10: 

The road to success for 99% of people isn’t a jump, it’s a steady incline from one successful project to the next. - Lee Morris

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Friday, October 11, 2013

How To Overcome Your Fear of Failure

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail? Would you talk to that special someone who you've admired from a distance? Would you apply for that job with a substantial pay increase? Would you invite a potential customer to see your business presentation? Would you audition for that competitive part in a movie or play? Would you take that first class in pursuit of a college degree? Would you travel around the world and check off those bucket list items? What would YOU do?

As you review that list of things that you want, let me ask the question, "What's holding you back?" Why aren't you doing it now? Is it the fear of failure? Is is the fear of criticism? Maybe it's the fear of rejection? Why haven't you embraced your destiny of greatness?

In this article, I would like to look at the fear of failure and then provide some tips to overcome them.

Fear of Failure: The Symptoms


Self-Sabotage


I personally know a little something about self-sabotage. In fact, many that know me also know that I can procrastinate like a champion. I'll put off toward tomorrow what I can easily do today. All the while, I know that given enough time I can do some pretty amazing things. So can YOU!

Not only does self-sabotage include delaying action, but it also includes the failure to follow through on important tasks, projects, and goals.

Perfectionism:


Along with procrastination comes the excuse of being a perfectionist. This is when one will only attempt those things that are a sure thing. If I cannot lose, then maybe I'll do it. However, add some competition, hard work, and a slim chance to the equation and these people never even try. 

Low-self esteem: 


The lack of confidence is a huge factor why many fear failure. In fact, I know people who often put themselves down through their words. Have you ever heard someone say, "Oh, I can't do that, I'm not strong enough!" You can switch the word strong with smart, pretty, or talented and the message is still the same. 

Overcoming the Fear of Failure


Take Action


The best way to overcome your fears is by facing them head on. As a kid, I was deathly afraid of speaking in front of people. When given the chance, I would purposely sign up for speaking engagements in order to force myself in front of the very things I feared most. What I found is that the more I did it, the less afraid I became. Remember, take immediate and intentional action. Face what you fear most. Do it NOW!

Attack It From A Different Perspective


When faced with fear that stops you in your tracks or continues to result in delayed success, consider trying a different route. In my life, when doors keep getting slammed in my face, I start looking for windows. There are many paths to achieve success, find yours.

Learn From Failures


In life, we all are going to fail from time to time. Instead of allowing our failures to define us, let's use them to get better. Take a moment to think about the last time you attempted to achieve something and missed the mark. What happened? What could you have done differently? Take the opportunity to adjust your sails and try again.

Fail Faster 


If we take the opportunity to learn from our failures, than we put ourselves in position to win by failing enough times that we find the right combination. So, if you knew that after failing enough times you would achieve your hearts desire, how fast would you fail to find the success? 

In sales, for example, I've heard that a "Yes" is just on the other side of enough "No's." Those no's can come in the form of rejection, criticism, or just a good old error on our part. Whatever the case, face your fears and fail faster.

Think Positively 


The mind is a powerful thing. I've heard all through life that we become like that which we think about most of the time. This means if we think negatively, than we get negative results. On the contrary, if we think positively, than we often get positive results. Why? Because the law of attraction says that like attracts like

To put it another way, you attract into your life that which you are. Positive, negative, good, bad, rich, poor, generous, or a scrooge, we all attract those people and things that are like us. So, if you want to overcome your fear of failure, you have to start by looking at the brighter side of life. 

Closing Thought


Whatever the reason for your fear, you can overcome it. That is if you really want to change your life. Please know that YOU were destined for greatness. You can either allow your fear of failure to overcome you or you can overcome the excuses that you tell yourself.
Before success comes in any man's life, he's sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That's exactly what the majority of men do. ~ Napoleon Hill
Let's not be like most people and quit. Let's take life by the horns and go get our heart's desire. Go get that person that you really want! Go get that job! Go talk to your customers! Go be the person that you were meant to become. Let's get it!

Until next time...

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Monday, August 26, 2013

Team Diamond Conference Call: Tips For Success


Speaker: Damond Nollan

The following audio and blog captures the tips for success during the Team Diamond conference call, which happens every Sunday night at 8:30 PM (EST).

"Your actions are a reflection of who you are and what you believe about yourself. Remember, Thought + Word + Action = Results" ~ Iyanla Vanzant
When we leave our trainings, we talk about going out and doing massive amounts of action. This is the difference between success and failure. Remember, the power of your thoughts and words determine how we act.

I highly recommend the essay, "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen. If you want to get your wallet right, you have to get your mind right, first. Until you can envision the end result, achieving it will be next to impossible. We get our minds right by reading books and listening to positive audios. Everything we are and who we become starts with a thought. Those seeds of thoughts come by what we read, watch, and listen.
Your words are powerful beyond measure. Speak life into others, as well as yourself, and you can achieve the impossible. ~ Damond Nollan
We talk to ourselves every day, be it through our self conscious or mouth. We need to take advantage of that and speak life into others as well as ourselves. As a parent, we should be speaking life into our kids. For our kids to hear the positive reinforcement, they may remember that for life. "I am smart and beautiful." They then begin to believe it because it is a seed that we plant.

As a leader, talk life into your team. Talk life into each other. People will live up to the vision that we place on their lives. Even if our team members don't believe it for themselves, we should believe it for them. Let's be a team of positive words and positive reinforcement.
"Be persistent and consistent." ~ Damond Nollan
We are gardeners. We are just out here planting seeds. Jim Rohn says that some of those seeds will grow. You cannot show the deal once a week and expect a bountiful harvest. Even before you see the harvest, you have to do the action to bring it forth. As a gardener, we plant seeds in the ground. We then water seeds and wait for it to grow. In some cases, it can take days, weeks, months, or even years.

Every time we show the deal, we're planting seeds. Do not measure the success of your day by the return, but rather by how many seeds you plant. What you do today may take up to 3 months before you see a return. Be consistent and persistent with your business.
"Effort is the new currency." ~ Julio June Acosta
There are many of us who want stuff, but we're not willing to do the work required to get it.
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you." Bible: Matthew 7:7 
What does this say? Ask, Seek, and Knock are all action words. You have to go out there and do the work. You can have anything that you want in this world.
"Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are." ~ James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
We want to have Aces on our teams. However, we don't deserve to have an Ace until we are first are an Ace. You have to be the person that you want those in your life to be. As a parent, our kids will do exactly as we do, not always what we say. If you want your team to be out there showing the deal, YOU have to be out there showing the deal. People are attracted to like minded people. Say what you want and go out there and do it.
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.
We all have challenges in our lives. You have health, finances, or any number of things. It's not the person that you are when things are going great, but the person you in the face of challenge. No matter what happens this week, be the man or woman that you are in the good times.
"Successful people are not gifted; they just work hard, then succeed on purpose." G.K. Nielson 
A lot of us look at the winners like June, Carlos, Dwayne, or Lee. "Maybe they have the genes for success." some say. No, successful people just work hard. Guys, you can have the same success as these leaders. You have to believe that it can be you and then go out there and get it.
A strong man cannot help a weaker man become strong. It is only by his own effort that a weak man can change his condition to develop the strength that he admires in others. Inspired by James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
As a leader and sponsor, the one thing I struggled with was how to help my team. For many months, I stopped showing the deal because I wanted my team to win. But after reading this, I realized that I cannot help them by doing it for them. We have to let them find their strength within themselves.

You will never have IMD status or wealth in your life until you do the work necessary to have it. As parents, sponsors, and business leaders, we often tell them that we'll do everything for them. We cannot help them by doing it for them, we have to let them find the strength within themselves to become the person they need to become.

I used to watch Pimp My Ride on MTV. I used to say that those cars are going to return back to the state they were before they got theirs cars pimped. The same is true for lottery winners. They win a million dollars and their broke in 12 months. Why? Because they don't know how to maintain it. They didn't earn it so how can they keep it?

You are exactly where you're supposed to be right now because of the decisions you made thus far. Wherever you are is exactly where you are supposed to be. The good news is that you can change your condition. You just have to decide to be and do something different. want something different, you have to do something different.

Don't blame anyone else for your success or failure. You are the deciding factor for your life. Circumstances happen to us all, but as Jim Rohn said, it is how you set your sail that matters.
"The level of success earned is based entirely on the measure of your sacrifice." ~ Damond Nollan
What are you willing to give up to have success? Eric Thomas explains success and says that there are those who are not willing to give up sleep, television, radio, Monday night football, or whatever. What's holding you back? What are you holding on to? I love television and movies, but if I watch it all day, I'll never amount to much.

Quick story:
Here is a man who is wretchedly poor. He is extremely anxious that his surroundings and home comforts should be improved. Yet all the time he shirks his work, and considers he is justified in trying to deceive his employer on the ground of the insufficiency of his wages. 
Here is a rich man who is the victim of a painful and persistent disease as the result of gluttony. He is willing to give large sums of money to get rid of it, but he will not sacrifice his gluttonous desires. He wants to gratify his taste for rich and unnatural foods and have his health as well. ~ James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
You have the power in you to achieve anything you want in your life. What are you willing to give up or do to get it? We all can go IMD, the question is how fast do you want it?

Whatever you got from this, take it and put massive amounts of ACTION behind it!

Sunday, December 19, 2010

What Joan Rivers Taught Me About Success

There is a lot about Joan Rivers that I did not know. For one, I learned that Joan is 75 years old and her professional entertainment career spans over 45 years, beginning with a performance on the Tonight Show with Johnny Carson.

Prior to the movie, Joan Rivers: A Piece of Work, I never really gave her much thought. I knew she was on the Celebrity Apprentice, a comedian, had one daughter, and talked about fashion on the red carpet. Today, I have a real appreciation for her and her many achievements.

It was during the credits that I started thinking about the lessons we can take from this movie. What did Joan teach me about success?

Never Stop Working
At 75, Joan is far more active than I am at 35. In the movie, we see her traveling from one city to another. She is a guest on a radio show and then at a book signing hours later. Joan will take just about any job offered and make it work for her benefit. It's amazing.

Lesson: Keep Busy
It matters not how old you are, staying active and productive helps keep you young and successful.

Success Is Not A Destination
By now, you should know that success is not a destination, it's a journey. Joan can speak from experience, as she has been to the very top of her industry and then ushered to the bottom. It's humbling, I'm sure, but she keeps getting back up.

There was a line in the movie where Joan's agent describes her career as being struck by lightening. This means that Ms. Rivers has been lucky enough to see her career revive and thrive a number of times. Her agent continues to explain that Joan is consistently outside in the rain trying to find the next lightening bolt. You can't get hit, if you're not getting wet.

Lesson: Get Back Up
Remember, even in the face of adversity and complete failure, we should find the strength to get back up. Success is not defined by a single event, but by the long-term story of personal achievements and fortitude.

Laugh A Lot
While Joan can appear crass and overly critical of others (hey, it is comedy, right?), I found that she laughs a lot. I suppose to be funny, one needs to see the comedy in every situation.

Lesson: Enjoy The Moment
The lesson is to laugh often. Look for the brighter side of everything and just be happy.

Surround Yourself With Good People
Each of us are alloted 24 hours per day. It is what we do with those hours that count.

In the movie, Joan appears to have experts surrounding her 24/7. From her personal assistant to the make-up artist in the dressing room, Ms. Rivers is able to manage her affairs through a trusted group of professionals.

Lesson: Delegate
To be successful, one needs to let go of the soloist mentality and seek to work with good people. Learn how to delegate tasks and follow through on assignments. When you get to Joan's level, doing everything alone is not feasible or wise.

Conclusion
In review, remember the following lessons from Joan Rivers:
  • Never stop working
  • Success is not a destination
  • Laugh a lot
  • Surround yourself with good people 
If you're curious about where to begin, I recommend that you chose one lesson to implement. Once you feel confident in its mastery, come back for another tip. Let me know how it works for you in the comment section below.

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